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Big Brother 20 – Friday Overnight Recap

Good morning everyone! It wasn’t very eventful last night but a little info creeped out during conversations for us to go over. Thankfully, Steve covered the talks Sam had with Kaitlyn and Hayleigh and I talked about Sam’s motives on another thread so hopefully, there won’t be too much overlapping. I’m only going to point out a few things Sam said to Hayleigh and Kaitlyn yesterday that I may have missed without getting into the conversations again.

  •  Steve is right, Sam came off as condescending to Hayleigh. The convo had a “you’re not that kind of girl” vibe. Hay makes it clear her family watches BB and she isn’t ashamed of anything she’s done. (She shouldn’t be) Sam told her the decision wasn’t personal but also said it wasn’t about the game. Hay said “If it isn’t game or personal, then what is it? Sam pointed out Hay was part of a duo so Hay said “so it is about game.”Sam told Hay “you’re better than that,” Hay asked what “that” was and Sam said “nothing in particular.” (Production took away Sam’s jug hooch but gave it back on Thursday afternoon. I heard her say it would be ready in about a week but I think she decided not to wait)
  • Kaitlyn’s meeting with Sam was crazy on both ends but I forgot to mention previously that Kaitlyn told Sam that when Tyler is hugging/cuddling her, he’s coaching her.  Kaitlyn said she acts this way with all her friends.
  • Sam met with Tyler in the hoh. She told him she put the two weakest females otb and it’s the first strategy we’ve heard from Sam except for her saying that they were a duo. JC busted in shortly after and Sam told them both (and told Fessy later in the evening) they could do whatever they wanted if they won the veto. Sam said once they have the final Noms, she’s going to tell them about the power, what it does and expect to get credit for nominating this week since they’ll probably get to come back. I’m surprised Tyler didn’t object to this. Maybe it’s because JC was in the room but I don’t think so. Sam also got the bright idea to let whoever wins the veto decide who the replacement would be. Tyler and JC  immediately started trying to talk her out of this plan. JC said what if it’s me? She said he wouldn’t go home. They also know RS would be the replacement nom if Sam does it.
  • Kaitlyn downstairs saying she knows RS won’t be a replacement nom. In her defense, she wasn’t allowed to sage the house and maybe that’s why she’s always wrong.
  • Bayleigh said her family has been on Price is Right, Wendy Williams and Family Fued. Family Fued should air in September. She said her roommate won Let’s Make A Deal.
  • Kaitlyn tells Fessy she’ll pick him to play for her in the veto and says she’ll always pick him over Tyler in the game. I look for her to spend more time with him this week to pull him away from Hayleigh a little more. She kissed him on the cheek and wanted to know why he didn’t kiss her back.
  • Angela is convinced Brett actually had “the talk” with RS. Kaycee gets a little on board but Rachel isn’t buying it. Bretts done such a good job, he’s convincing people who knew it was made up. (For the record, Brett & Tyler went over the story Brett was giving in case Tyler got questioned about it. Brett originally said Tyler walked by while they were talking and that’s  how he was brought into it.)
  • Angela & Rachel want to throw the veto to Hay if possible so RS will be put on the block. Rachel isn’t in a hurry for RS to go but Angela wants her out.
  • Fessy thought Julie picked the winner in the event of a tie.
  • JC tells Fessy he’s being too paranoid and needs to calm down….again. JC told him correctly who the noms would be and told him RS will be the replacement. JC may actually be the 1 person Fessy completely trusts. JC has put in good work with Fessy for a while now and is getting the pay off.
  • Kaitlyn is back to thinking RS flipped and Brett is telling the truth. Later, she goes back to a power changing 2 votes.
  • Rachel & Angela make fun of the girls alliance. Rachel points out a female won hoh and 2 females are otb. She says “nice job with your alliance.”
  • RS takes a tiny break from obsessing over Brett to tell Hay she feels Sam is very protective over Scottie and that may explain some of Sam’s concerns.
  • JC tells RS she looks like a f*****g truck ran over her, says she needs to calm down and maybe take a shower. She thanks him. Lol
  • Somehow Bayleighs Bible got ruined that she had since she was a kid. Hay says she knows who did it but won’t tell. Sam said she was pissed over it too.
  • Sam met with Fessy, talked about his situation with Hayleigh and Kaitlyn. She’s trying to play mama bear and reel him in. She even hugs him and snuggles him….while wearing shorts! That Hussy!! Sam told Tyler earlier that she “had” Fessy. Sam is way too confident about this imo. Bayleigh is closer to Fessy than Sam and she can’t get him to pull away from Kaitlyn. (Good luck with that Sam)
  • Sam says she’s not a prude. She says she’s a f*****g lady. I guess throwing the F-bomb is the fastest way to prove you’re a lady. ??
  • Kaitlyn says it’s very unfair America didn’t give her a power app. (She thinks getting Swaggy out was the move of the century) Bayleigh told her maybe America was mad at her for getting Swaggy out.
  • Kaycee gives Rachel advice regarding Brett. This hasn’t been talked about much because Rachel and Angela have such quiet games, we don’t talk about them a lot. I’ve been saying Rachel was playing a smart game by working/playing well with the other side and I’ve briefly mentioned her crush on Brett but that’s about it. For anyone who isn’t aware, Rachel has been obsessed with Brett and a showmance since the season started. She throws herself at him but often tries to do it in a joking and flirting way. He’s aware of how she feels but keeps her at a distance. He also does it in a joking way. Kaycee told her that Brett probably didn’t like it when girls threw themselves at him or laid all over him and she’d probably do better if she played a little harder to get. Rachel’s also been getting a little paranoid about Angela and Brett becoming too close. She complained about not being able to hang out with the friends she wanted very much so they could keep their alliance secret. She was saying she wants more time with Angela but she was meaning she didn’t want Angela to have too much time with Brett imo. (Rachel’s feelings arn’t Kait/Hay/Fessy level by any means, it just bugs her)
  • Brett tells Kaitlyn he’ll play for her in the veto and take her off the block. Hahaha
  • RS still doesn’t get why Sam supports Bretts terrible, nasty demon like behavior (otherwise referred to as game strategy) and Bay points out Sam spends more time with the other side of the house.
  • Hayleigh is feeling a bit better and got assurance from JC, Angela and Kaycee they’ll keep her if noms stay the same. Meanwhile, Kaitlyn is saying she hopes the (Level 6) other side remembers what she did for them…I’m gonna say, nope.
  • Angela thinks RS leaving will make Kaitlyn easier to manipulate. Angela doesn’t have a good read on the house because Tyler runs Kaitlyn brain, not RS.
  • Kaitlyn truly believes Bretts speech was so he could apologize to her on national tv and to make amends with her. RS asks why she was brought into it and Kaitlyn isn’t sure.
  • RS is STILL bitching about Brett but I’m not getting into it because I don’t want to torture you guys or myself. One funny thing RS did say tho – While trying to figure out who was lying about the votes, Kaitlyn said she was standing in her truth, RS was standing in her truth and Brett was standing in his truth. RS corrected her and said Brett was standing in bullsit. I did think that one was funny.

I’m puzzled over something and have been for years. Yesterday’s nom speech makes it even more relevant this season. I get the whole needing affection and contact from people thing because you spend 3 months with strangers. It messes with your head and probably gets really lonely.  I also understand hg’s who say 1 day feels like a week and you get really close really fast to each other. However, I have close friends that I’ve had for 20 years but I don’t snuggle and cuddle with them while we’re hanging out together. I don’t even get the need for bedtime snuggling. Most of these people are single and are used to sleeping alone so why do they need to be cuddled in bed? I’m not talking about the hgs who get in a relationship while in the house because that’s a different situation. I’m talking about the average hg who simply has friends in the house they hang out with. I’m aware I’m not in my 20’s anymore but my friends didn’t do that when we were young and single. My son and daughter are in their 20’s and they don’t do it either. Im not being judgemental about it like Sam, I don’t care what they do. I’m simply puzzled by the behavior.  Do you know young adults who do this while their hanging out, sitting by the pool, having a chat in the living room, getting a snack, etc.? They lay on each other, sit on each other and play with each other’s hair as if they’re monkeys picking off bugs.

Have a great Saturday!


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  1. LO1004

    I will admit I was guilty of this behavior when I was in my early 20s. Me and my friends were just affectionate, and I believe being alone w out family and friends could amplify this behavior in the BB house. Now I don’t want to be touched unless it’s my boyfriend. And even that could be a little much if it’s too [email protected] hot out.

  2. HappyHippo

    I don’t know of people that do this either. Not to the extent that these hgs do anyways.
    RS really needs to STFU. Kaitlyn needs to be evicted and lose at the puzzle. Hay needs to get her shit together and play like we know she can play. She said in the storage room yesterday to I forget who but that she would campaign against Kaitlyn and you would be able to tell she wanted to stay. I’ve never understood the “I won’t campaign against my best friend” bs …. you just met and prob will only see a handful of times when you get out. You are there to win a lot of money and win a game.

    • danmtruth

      Even the Bro’s did under the radar campaigning Bret took every opportunity to mention how Bret made enemies and caused drama While Bret talked to his L6 people and brought out how he was better at comps and had connection with people
      So yes never sit back thats what was Winston & Steves mistake

  3. danmtruth

    When RS #Whatwasithinking clothing line ( thank you Colby) was talking to BSC #Ittakesawholelotofmoneytolookthistrashy.clothing line and Hay and trashing Bret about his rich privilege It struck me as odd she was talking to the two girls who grew up with money BSC talking about high school camps in Europe Daddy’s bank vault being broken into How much her clothes cost Hay we read about her and her family being pretty well off One thing that maybe getting back to AIO fake bio’s In Hay it mention she found out she was adopted at 6 Yet I have never heard her mention this on the show I understand her not wanting to share this with the houseguest Yet why have it in your bio

    Sam CAN NOT let anyone who wins POV take down someone than let THEM chose the replacement This is just running away from HER responsibilities Owen your HOH I like that after the POV she will tell the two remaining people about the chance to come back This will then get out to the rest of the house It should make for some interesting vote deliberation Will anyone then figure out that there is no battle back for the other evicted people

    • Colby

      #Ittakesawholelotofmoneytolookthistrashy.clothing line
      LMAO, dan

      I did hear Haleigh tell someone that her parents tried to have more kids but that her mother had several miscarriages. I hadn’t heard that she was adopted.

      I don’t think Sam will really let them choose anyone for a replacement. I think that she doesn’t think veto will be used, and has said if that happens she will put up Rainbow. But we will see. The DR could have told her it is a really easy puzzle.

  4. Colby

    I guess I need to pay closer attention.
    I have totally missed Rachael laying on Brett. I know she is attracted to him and flirts with him, but I have missed the physical part of it I guess.
    And to me, except for JC, who is irrelevant to me in this situation, almost all of the snuggling and cuddling always includes Chakra and/or Haleigh. I am not talking about supportive pats or hugs, but the extended contact.
    But like I said, I will try to pay more attention. A different perspective could be interesting.

  5. Zach

    In my opinion it has to do with the fact that the majority of young people have developed an addiction to attention, always being the center of the world, always needing instant gratification. Idk where the folks my age and older went wrong, but it’s truly the downfall of our society. Personally, I think it has a lot to do with social media and the desensitization from appropriate societal norms.

    • Mel

      That makes sense becauae I was only comparing them to average 20 somethings, not type A personalities who also have to have everything about them. That type is usually who is cast for shows like this.

  6. ElaineB

    These HGs are forced to be housemates (in limited space), ‘friends’, yet ultimately rivals (for those that are truly playing for the money). Don’t know how they act with friends in real lives, nor do I care. In the house, it may be a comfortable way for some to feel like they are making connections or have connections to people they just met and are living with. Having said that, there are other HGs who are making connections and not resorting to laying up on/touching others at every opportunity…..those are my peeps!

  7. HappyHippo

    Looks like feeds are down to pick noms

  8. Helen

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  9. Shivani33

    Maybe it’s an unwritten rule? Thou shalt plop all over others in the Big Brother house, and if sex on tv happens, that is commendable(?) I don’t know, Mel. Please let us know if you figure it out. There is such a lack of stimuli in the house, there isn’t much to keep occupied. I do think that different individuals playing BB have different experience, backgrounds, conditionings and motives. Fessy is like a guy in a candy shop. Haleigh is in over her head. Kaitlyn is a smotherer. Tyler is a big canopy tree. Brett is a user. Scottie is curious about dem bones. JC is freaky by nature. Sam is highly conflicted about intimacy/her own rules. On & on it goes.

  10. Mel

    Fessy, Bayleigh and JC will play in veto. I think Hayleigh chose Fessy but not confirmed.

  11. Colby

    Sounds like Fessy got picked to play and Rachael is hosting, but can’t tell who else is playing yet.

  12. Colby

    I think Fessy and Bay just said Rainbow is playing. Maybe they were just speculating about what she would do about using the veto if she was.

  13. Avatar

    Just because they refer to themselves as single doesn’t mean they don’t have a dating/sex life. I suspect many BB 20-something houseguests are rather promiscuous outside of the house and bet are just carrying that behavior to this game, too. Fortunately some of them are able to dial there behaviors back knowing that have a camera pointed at them 24/7.

  14. Helen

    Any takers on how much longer BSC is going to leave the starting to look ragged braids on the side of her head?

    • HappyHippo

      Until one of the guys comments on it lol
      I couldn’t believe she had wet hair this morning with them in, you washed your hair with them in? Wtf
      It’s not like a full set of real braids where you do wash with them in…

  15. danmtruth

    Did I just watch Fessy diddle Hay in the pink room in front of Bay as she read the Bible ? His hand was under the covers Between Hay’s legs Her legs were spread wide and the covers were moving HMMM ??

    Last night Scottie was trying to help BSC by giving her a strategy for the spelling game It was use a base word like LIGHT Than build off of it Examlels were light, enlighten , enlightenment easy right Not till BSC could not understand that the word light stays the same She somehow kept changing the spelling Bay is helping Hay with Fessy help by using the Bible for words and inspiration Fessy wanted to know if Californiacation was a word HE’S SO PRETTY

  16. Shivani33

    Fessy is under pressure, especially from Kaitlyn, who told him that she wouldn’t be able to look at him anymore if he wins POV and doesn’t do what she wants. For self-preservation, if he’s bright enough to think of it, he could just say that he’s throwing the comp because he doesn’t want to have to decide about which gal he’d feel obligated to protect. Don’t poke the bear.

  17. Avatar

    Stupid Question from someone that doesn’t dive into the comments much….

    BSC = who?? And what does it stand for?

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