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Big Brother 20 – Wednesday Recap

Good morning! It’s finally Thursday and with no campaigning going on, it feels like forever since we’ve had an eviction. Tonight, we’ll see that plus a juror return or the start of the comp to determine who returns. It was leaked yesterday the comp will be the one where they spin in the air on ropes with some type of small platform for their feet. I’m going to assume for now that the leak is true and also assume the battle back and hoh comp will be combined like it was in the past.


In season 17, Johnny Mac was the returning juror and it came down to Vanessa and him with Vanessa winning the hoh. In season 18, it was Natalie and Victor. Victor won the comp and I can still hear Natalie begging Victor to “let” her win. It would seem Scottie has the best chance out of the jury to win this one.  I think he won bowl-a-Rina this season which also involves spinning. Smaller people usually do better but since Victor won it, we can’t count anyone out. The spinning has to be factored in as well because someone with small feet and not too much body weight could also have a hard time and throw up when they get dizzy.  I think the hoh winner could be almost anyone and I could see most of them doing well. We’ll know soon enough. Until then, let’s go over yesterday.

Early in the day:

  • KC suggested they paint JC’s nails and Brett suggested they tape his mouth instead. (This would’ve been a good thing to happen and a sign for things to follow, we just didn’t know it yet)
  • Brett said it was the 1 week anniversary of him trying to burn down the BB house so he celebrated by making bacon again. He said he used less sugar just to be cautious.
  • Hay tried to get Fes up and out of his hermit hole he created without any luck so she moved on to other people. She’s using the same strategy but with new people. She goes from bed to bed laying on or by everyone.
  • KC tested out swinging her ponytail braid around and almost took out Brett.
  • Angela answered her Twitter hoh questions and said KC is her best friend in the house, she hates to think of losing a L6 member but when it happens, it will have to be Brett. She wants to use the money to buy a flip house, a project she and her father can do together. (It’s what he does already)
  • Tyler told KC he didn’t want to sleep with JC after the night before but not for the reasons people on social media are mad at JC over.

Bedroom News: The night before, Tyler and JC slept together. JC kissed Tyler’s armpit in the middle of the night and massaged his arm. A lot of people were creeped out. Some sources were saying Tyler had been assaulted in his sleep. It wasn’t that serious. Bizarre…yes. assault…no. He wasn’t massaging Tyler’s face. (which was also reported) He was fixing his eye shades they use to keep the light out. JC is a bed hog, a close sleeper and hot to sleep with. He also has a lot of gas. Those are the reasons Tyler doesn’t like sleeping with him. ALL these people are very touchy, feely and snuggle when they sleep. (I’ve said before, it would drive me batshit crazy! Except for grandbabies who are also bed hogs, I need my personal space, period) Does anyone remember Frankie and Zach from bb16? This situation wasn’t an assault on Tyler in his sleep and it looked innocent enough to me. If JC weren’t gay, people wouldn’t have such an issue with it imo. It was leaked that Tyler was asked about it in the DR and he had no problem with it. It also wasn’t a secret JC was trying to keep the next morning. They joked and Tyler knew about it.  (There are enough beds for everyone now but they’ve talked about the have nots taking most of the comforters. The house is also known to be cold all the time. That’s the reason most of them sleep together, along with the habit of doing it. I’ve also heard hg’s talk about missing a connection to people because they’re shut up for so long) Fessy recently told Tyler he could see over the showers. Where was the outrage when he proudly made that announcement?  I think this was blown out of proportion but wait, there’s more JC trouble to follow…

  • Brett tried to put on JC’s shirt from one of the comps”
  • Angela came out of the DR crying and said she’d talked about her childhood and was having a very emotional day. KC, Tyler and Hay comforted her.
  • Fessy finally made an appearance and left the have not room. That’s KC & Hay in the bed, having one of Hays strategy meetings:

This was around the time the episode came one. I only have a few comments about it. Angela having to call Haleigh and Fessy “a power couple” in the DR was cringe worthy when you know what’s really going on in the house. The veto comp was cool but the first round was bad. Not only was it almost impossible to catch the balls, they had to light them up to even see them. I thought the segment of Fessy & Haleigh going over how bad their games were and being able to laugh about it was really cute.

Back to the feeds:

  • Tyler and Angela napped together while the rest of the house hung out downstairs.
  • JC reminded Fessy he needed to talk to Sam about not going after Hay. Fessy said he would but told JC he needed to do it too. He said he couldn’t do all JC’s dirty work for him.
  • Fessy and Hay hung out together so he finally got some of the time with her he wanted. He said the house would be stupid not to evict him. Hay is still acting like she’s not sure who’s leaving. (It should be obvious but in her defense, she’s been blindsided all season so there has to be a little doubt) It also sounded like Hay was trying to get Fessy to tell her that he loved her. I don’t think she’s too worried about leaving because she’s been active with the house, in a pretty good mood and she watched him pack. She didn’t seem anxious to do her own packing tho.
  • L6 talked about who to go after in case there’s a double. (They think it’s a DE but no battle back) Angela asked about getting rid of JC over Sam & Hay. She also mentioned getting Sam out before Hay. Brett and Tyler both shut this down and each, for their own reasons. Angela thought Hay would go after Sam but Brett told her it was an act and Hay would still be coming for them. Angela snapped out of it and remembered Hay annoys her and said Hay has her head up everyone’s ass. Brett said they needed to take JC to F5.
  • JC walked in on Brett giving Angela a massage. He said something to them about it making great tv. She had her shirt off and he made a big deal about it when he came downstairs. He told people not to go up there and acted shocked over what he saw. Sam sounded like she believed something was going on but this is Tyler laughing because he knew what JC was trying to do:
  • Angela was annoyed with JC and said she knew Sam would be mad. Later, she cried over it and said the “making great tv” comment bothered her. (She was already having an emotional day and that’s why I think she cried. They all know what JC is up to so it wasn’t a big deal) I don’t think things like this makes sense to get upset over. They have cameras so what’s really going on is on camera, therefore it doesn’t matter what someone says. The “great tv” remark is true…in a way. If BB wants, they can edit the massage with music to make it look like more than it was (they’ve done it before) but the hg’s know this already. If you don’t want that, don’t get a massage with your top off. It isn’t that complicated. (Don’t worry if you don’t like JC, I won’t defend him over the next thing he’s involved in later in the night…)
  • Brett point out the Fessy/Hay shomance must be real because Fessy hasn’t talked to anyone about trying to stay. He knows that’s the only reason someone would fall on their sword.(He doesn’t realize Fessy decided to save his energy and win the battle back) JC made a joke about not telling Fessy there probably isn’t a battle back and he’s just letting Fessy “live his little dream.” (They really are going to be surprised tomorrow)
  • Fessy and Hay talked about walking out tomorrow night. Hay’s bothered by the idea of leaving wearing athletic clothing if she’s the one going. She doesn’t want Julie to think she doesn’t have better fashion sense. Fessy asked if Julie has a lot of fashion sense and Hay kept repeating his question like it’s the dumbest question in the world. (First, Julie’s hosted the show since the beginning so I think she’d know why Hay was wearing athletic clothes.  Second, most people know I always have an opinion about Julie’s clothing. Truthfully, she misses more than she hits but it’s her stylist’s fashion sense I usually have an issue with, not Julie’s) Fessy asked about hugging Julie because he’d heard she isn’t a hugger. Hay confirmed this so he decided he’d probably just pick her up. Hay begged him repeatedly “please don’t pick up Julie Chen.” (I agree with Hay on this one. Remember when Paulie did it? She looked like she wanted to punch him)

This was close to the part of the night JC decided to pull a prank on Haleigh. (I get things a little out of order. I’m not a time stamp kind of recapper, sorry! ) (editors note: it was 10:59 pm) He opened the bathroom door on her while she was, I guess peeing. Thankfully, with the camera angles at the time, these are the kind of shots we saw:


Haleigh yelled at him, laughed and then she yelled “production.” I’m specifically pointing out that she laughed because there are some people who think this meant she must have been okay with it. I completely disagree and I know a lot of people, including myself who’ve  laughed in situations that made them nervous or uncomfortable so that means nothing imo. I also understand that if you’re sitting on a toilet and have your shirt on, none of your intimate body parts will be seen but should that matter? Who wants to be shown on the toilet? He made the situation worse by trying to tie the door open. Production did cut to feeds when she asked so that was good. Sam came to her rescue and was irritated with JC. This pissed off JC because he said he was tired of her yelling at him whenever he was trying to play a prank. Sam wasn’t having any of it and defended herself. Afterward, Haleigh thanked Sam. You guys know that I’ve always liked JC but if he opened the door on me while I was trying to pee, I’d punch him in the damn face.

I said from the beginning of the season he has a different comfort level than some people because of the people he’s with in his regular life. I’m not saying it’s a bad thing that he’s sort of a club kid who hangs with a very “free-spirited” crowd for lack of a better way to describe it. He’s said this himself so I’m not stereotyping JC in any way. Having said that, he isn’t living in the house with that group of friends so he needs to be the one to adjust his behavior. I’m only saying this to point out that I don’t think he’s trying to be malicious, I just think he has a different standard of what is acceptable behavior and what isn’t. He got called to the DR and hopefully they laid into him pretty heavily. For now, he’s mad at Sam and thinks Haleigh overreacted. We’ve seen in the past how JC has a very hard time apologizing or admitting when he’s wrong. His normal reaction is to get mad at the person who’s calling him out on something. This situation is over in the house but for the fans, I think he lost quite a few yesterday.

Back to the feeds:

  • Brett told L6 he left the “I’ll take care of Hay” goodbye msg for Fessy but he could be lying.
  • Tyler asked JC if he apologized and JC said: “to who?” Tyler said “Haleigh” and JC asked, “why?”  JC retold his bathroom story to L6 and said it was just a prank and she had her clothes on. (He just refuses to get it)
  • JC kept pushing the Brett/Angela massage situation and Tyler told him he knew what he was trying to do but said it was bullshit and he needed to stop. Tyler said it was time for a new topic.
  • Tyler and KC checked in and Tyler said again it was good that people saw KC and Angela together and saw Tyler and Angela together but no one had ever thought of Tyler and KC together.  He said it was good that he was spending all this time with Angela. (Ya Ty, that’s why, sure) Tyler admitted they’d cuddled a little but said they hadn’t gotten very personal with their conversations (which we know is a lie) Later, he tried to backtrack it a little bit.
  • KC consoled Sam because she was  sad. She said it’s over the situation with JC. It could be her usual Wednesday night depression that many people think she’s using as a strategy but I actually think she was upset over JC.
  • Hay and Tyler talked and fed each other some bs. They talked about a double eviction and wondered if it would be a 2 hr special. Hay said yes and that is always is. (There’s one person every year who annoys me with their BB knowledge I’m not annoyed when they guess and get things wrong, I’m annoyed by the person who states things as fact but rarely knows what they’re talking about. That person this year is Hay. Last year it was Alex)
  • JC asked Brett again if he had wine with the other 3 in the hoh the other night and again,  Brett said no. (He knows either Tyler or Brett is lying to him, it isn’t about the wine) He told Brett they’d have to put off getting Angela out because of Tyler and go after Hay & Sam next. JC had also told Tyler he would wait.

Here’s a sneak peek of tonight’s comp. This could be two seperate comps. It looks like it could be the one with the balls that have to be dropped in tubes from above. Maybe the jurors do that part and have the swinging one after. We’ll have to wait to know for sure but here’s a shot of the set up…you can speculate too!


I’ll see you all back here tonight. I’m ready for things to get exciting again. Have a great Thursday!



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  1. Helen

    Why do I have to keep logging in? Already twice this morning and I always check remember me?

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    It sure looks like a really good possibility Fester goes home, and Scottie comes back in. If that does happen, they better pad the walls to his room. He’s going to lose his mind.

  3. LynnD

    Good Morning Everyone,

    I want to ask a quick question that is not BB related and has nothing to do with the feeds.

    WHY would someone go to my profile and hit the “dislike” button on my profile & profile pic? Is someone seriously that bored, that childish or just that much of a jackass? I also notice that 90% of my comments get 1 or more dislikes whether I am posting positive or negative comments. I honestly didn’t even know that we had a like or dislike button next to our profiles until 10 minutes ago.

    So whoever has decided to “dislike” me for whatever reason…….Did you hurt my feelings? Absolutely not because you are not relevant. If you were relevant in my life I would know you personally. Do I think you are an insecure child who hides behind a keyboard? ABSOLUTELY YES!!! Remember this is a blog with A lot of different people reading & posting there opinions (OPINIONS) and there are a few that even keep us updated when Mel & Steve are busy. So maybe grow up and just enjoy the updates like the rest of us.

    On that note I am going to scroll up and read the updates for last night to see what I missed. Then I am going to go about my day & keep posting when I can.

    Everyone else Have a Great Day & get ready for the rigged Battle Back! LOL

  4. LO1004

    UGH, JC is just tone deaf when it comes to certain things and I really hope the DR gives him real consequences soon because I’m getting tired of him. There was a 10 min block of time when he was in the bathroom where the feeds kept cutting because he wouldn’t stop singing or playing with Brett’s mic. He just doesn’t think rules apply to him. He would’ve been a good contender for AFP, but I think he just lost to Brett. Sorry, not sorry.

    • Jenny

      I know a few people like that, where their behavior is offensive and inappropriate, but they think everyone ELSE is just too uptight or too “politically correct”. Deliberately opening the door on someone in the bathroom is WAY out of line and trying to tie it open… they should have threatened to remove him from the game over that.
      And they need to do something about the shower situation because it’s creepy that tall guys like Fessy can see people fully naked like that. I’m sure Hay’s dad would not be happy about him ogling his baby girl.

      • Seattle Kari

        I think the fact that they don’t have privacy while showering and going to the bathroom is completely ridiculous. The shower door should go door to ceiling and there should be a lock on the bathroom door. And putting a camera on the bathroom ceiling is disgusting.

      • Jenny

        I think the only put a camera in the bathroom stall so people couldn’t go in there to talk off camera. But still. BB could just yell at them if more than one person goes in there! And I agree that they need a lock on that door.
        I’m sure they made the shower that way so people could be seen from the shoulders up over the top of it. There are a lot of scenes where someone in the shower is talking to someone outside of it. I think they should get rid of the curtain in the middle and make H/N a separate stall, then make the shower door high enough that people can’t see over it.

    • Seattle Kari

      I don’t care what JC’s regular life is about or the way he acts around his other friends the fact that he cannot comprehend that it is not cool.

      Between the ice cream scoops and now this with her in the bathroom I’m done with him. This not understanding what he did wrong as a bunch of bullshit. He’s not that stupid, he just doesn’t care.

  5. LindsayB

    Oh JC!! My issue isn’t necessarily with his actions. I’m not saying what he’s done is cool, but I understand his intent behind it isn’t to harm someone or hurt their feelings. He has probably always played the class clown type role so I get that he’s trying to be funny. I don’t think it’s funny but I understand that he does. My issue is that instead of apologizing for crossing someone’s personal boundaries and explaining that his intent wasn’t to harm them, he doubles down on it and gets mad at the person who’s boundaries were crossed. He’s basically saying, “How dare you get mad about the joke I made at your expense!!” His bratty immaturity is what makes us laugh but it also results in these situations.

    • Mel

      Completely agree with you! I actually forgot to even put in the post that Hay had just pranked him before this so this was JC returning the favor. He just always takes it to another level and as you said refuses to apologize. I don’t know if it’s stubbornness or if he’s one of those people that feels some weird embarrassment over needing to make an apology. Either way, it isn’t the smartest game to play.

    • Jay H

      Completely agree. I personally think JC is funny. I find inappropriate stuff funny sometimes. That doesn’t mean I think his actions are acceptable. I pull and do inappropriate stunts sometimes, but I try to be very cognizant of the other persons feelings and if I hurt their feelings I apologize for MY ACTIONS, not how they felt. I’ve become a ‘“master apologist” over the years.

      People who refuse to apologize or admit their wrongdoing, many times, have symptoms of narcissism. They never think they are wrong. They actually get mad if someone is critical of them. I’ve had some close relationships that have caused me to research these behaviors. It’s really annoying.

      • Sassy

        We have a couple friends like that too. I’m not a big prankster but I do find some of it funny. They know I would not find it as funny if they did it to me, so they are respectful of that and tone things done when the joke is on me. I can laugh at myself and take a joke but they know not to cross lines. When jokes/pranks do cross lines, as long as the person the joke was on thinks it’s funny, I don’t make a big deal of it. I just feel those involved get to decide what goes to far and what doesn’t.

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    With JC’s antics I almost wouldn’t mind seeing him sent packing next

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      I remember Hayleigh mentioning weeks ago that JC has some condition where he can’t handle stress very well? Some condition he has? He has no problem inflicting it on others in the house. He has provided some comedic relief but he has to wearing a little thin for them by now. Might be best for him to go on double eviction night, no time for him to campaign, no time for him to see it coming. They seem to worry about which way he’s voting some of the time anyways, or if he’s scheming. Would be the perfect time to cut him loose.

  7. Sassy

    Great recap Mel! I agree with you completely on JC. His argument with Sam was kind of funny, he sounded like a spoiled 5 year old, even his body gestures were similar to a temper tantrum. There are several videos of him out there, he leads a very out there type of life. Most of the hg find it funny, although they would never do those things themselves. He has been in a real pissy mood this past week. I think partly because MF is leaving and he doesn’t have the same control over the other side of the house and partly because of Ty’s ever growing affections for Angela.

    The comp tonight is anyone’s game. I’d almost like to see JC win to see what he would do. Would he get want to put up Angela or get out the returning player? He would have to show his cards on where he stood and it could change what people think of him next week. I did not think it would be in his best interest to win. I prefer Scottie to come back, but I hate the battle back and prefer none of them do. I am rooting for KC but I think that is a long shot. Sam would be an interesting win because I think she may put up JC (because she appalled by his recent actions) and Haha (because she’s flirty), but possibly Angela if she heard the whole convo the other night and if she’s feeling bad for Haha because of MF leaving…

    • Helen

      I watched a short video clip on Evel Dicks twitter feed of the intercom incident….interesting part…Brett walks into HOH room and walks by intercom and it’s off…he walks a little further and the minute he mentions Sams name you see the intercom come on…..per Vegas Sam heard the entire conversation….

    • Mel

      I’m with you, it isn’t good for JC’s game to win the next one but I’d like to see him have to put two people on the Block. I also think he would run around like a dictator all week and that could be entertaining too.

  8. Patty

    What don’t they see that Hay is the better player and needs to go… MF is worthless and dumb as a box of rocks when it comes to this game. Keep him and get the strategic player out!

  9. Helen

    Discussions on JC happening NOW.

    If Tyler doesn’t formally complain to producers (he hasn’t), likely no removal just a warning. Tyler is already aware of what happened.


    • Helen

      As of now (this is developing so no decision yet), prod may just tell JC to not ask Tyler about sharing a bed so it won’t put Ty in an awkward spot and to remember the very serious conversation they had with him earlier in the season about respecting HGs space.


      • Helen

        Hayleigh DID complain to producers about JC refusing to close the restroom door on her though. It’s part of the convo happening.

        Alone this is not enough BUT producers have spoken to JC previously about respect of space.

        Even if meant innocent, BB acts if HG complain.


      • Helen

        I try to not share my personal thoughts so while I get you asking, I won’t.

        What I do know is that BB takes HGs safety, concerns, and welfare seriously and listen to HGs if they express concerns and try to find a solution.

        At this time, no other info on this to share.


      • Colby

        IMO, They won’t do anything except tell him to stop.
        They don’t make him follow the rules.
        They are just blowing smoke to the viewers because they are complaining, doing damage control.

    • Mel

      Who’s discussing it on the feeds?

      • Helen

        Those were tweets from Vegas Mel….production is in talks re : JC this am

      • Mel

        Ya, I should have kept reading. I realized after. Vegas is overly dramatic sometimes tho. They like to tell us things we already kmow, like about Hay complaining. We know, she yelled to them on the feeds. Lol

      • Jenny

        Mel, I was confused too. I assumed it was the house guests talking about it. Helen thanks for clarifying, and for sharing!

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      JC needs to go.

  10. Shivani33

    There was a lot of hollering between JC and Sam over the Haleigh/JC pottygate. My experience watching it happen was that Sam responded to what she saw reasonably and firmly, whereas JC, who was the jackass in this case, was furious for getting busted. JC then ranted to everyone he could about Sam. Sam might not like Haleigh much, but she responded protectively to what she saw, regardless!

    JC is strikingly immature for someone of his age. Being of small stature isn’t much of an excuse for him not respecting personal boundaries. He also acts out like someone who has a big problem with authority. He rebels in petty ways everyday, simply about getting up out of bed. Maybe he is lucky that people, including production & houseguests, don’t seem to mind babysitting him and indulging him throughout the entire game. He seems to think that he is a special snowflake, and when does he take the feelings and experiences of the others involved into account?

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  12. Mel

    I read that this is one of the weeks football will effect BB in some areas so check and see if it’s you…in case you have it scheduled to record.

  13. FW aka CY

    Really good recap, Mel Thanks! It really helps us non-feeders get a more “rounded” feel for the house and its inhabitants. We appreciate you and Mr Beans and all the updaters!

    What I think of Haileigh’s strategizing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsneH0mOq-0

    I hope we can all sing this one to Fester tonight – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_50-gOeBilc

  14. Colby

    A ticker running across the top of the live feed page said ‘Tune into the live feeds after tonight’s episode to see some special drama, and then to see who is crowned the new HOH’ (or something like that) when I logged in.
    Does it always say that and I just never noticed?
    Do you think maybe we get to see the comp tonight?

  15. Mel

    The comp should be on feeds after the show acording to some one who saw it on the feed scroll. Don’t hold me to that. This hasn’t been a super long one in the past.

  16. Helen

    Wow…Angela is going to have to get out of bed today…at least long enough to get down to the pink bedroom!!!

  17. Sassy

    Bob is jumping on the polite bandwagon… He just said, “what do you NOT understand about please?” He’s annoyed MF won’t get out of bed… Maybe Bob is RealVegas.

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    Magic1993 (49 comments)

    So is it just the 4 evictees that play in battle back, or is it them plus the remaining house guests? I’m so confused.

    • Mel

      The last time they did this one, everyone competes at the same time. The last juror remaining gets to return and the overall last person remaining gets hoh. That way, the returning juror could also win hoh too.

  19. Mel

    I’m having issues at the moment with pics but anyone watching feeds and wants to look back, there’s a brief shot of the comp around 10:40 am.

  20. Mel

    This looks more like the comp where they have the balls that have to be dropped in tubes, not the swinging one, to me at least. I sent it to Steve so he’ll probably post it and get your opinions.

  21. AIO_7

    August 30, 2018 at 8:57 am
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    “Somebody please explain to my why my posts are all-the-time getting hijacked by the “Your comment is awaiting moderation.” gremlin? Is it a timing thing? How do you avoid it? Burns my grits, man”….

    F-weed: I believe that happens automatically when people post multiple links into one comment box. It’s protection against flooding.

  22. Mel

    I finally got the photo to load so it’s at the bottom of the recap. Any thoughts? 2 comps tonight?

  23. Jay H

    Sam called a spade a spade when she nominated Ha. She’s still employing her flirty ways. She was laying on KC yesterday and rubbing her. She was playing with Angela’s hair. I’m with NKog- I do not like this girl. And, I hate when people say it’s because she’s young. My daughters never acted as despicably as she does.

    • ladycobra

      Totally agree. Can not stand the girl. Everything about her is fake. If you just watched the shows you would think she is America’s Sweetheart, but the feeds show what she is really like. I can’t even stand to watch her on the feeds. If she says something worthwhile I will miss it. I will be dancing a jig when she walks out that door and at the young age of 64 that is saying a lot.

    • Ann

      Off the subject a bit but, do any of you have a daughter-in-law, maybe a son-in-law that just rubs you the wrong way? I have one & I’m not the type of person who bites her tongue & when I tell you shit is getting ready to hit the fan , you guys had better take cover. This bitch is going to have to be reminded that it is my name on this house deed not hers. I’m sorry for venting guys but I had to get it out. There’s going to be some changes around here starting today or somebody is going to be doing some packing & removing themselves from my residence.

      • Sassy

        Ann – My kids are grown, but not married yet. After my son finished his bachelors degree, he came home and lived with us for 5 months and that was enough for me and he IS my son!! I helped him with his resume and put in applications ALL over the state. My house, MY rules! Don’t like them, GET OUT!!!! I feel for you, but at some point, they need to stand on their own feet and make a life for themselves.

      • Jay H

        Is she living with you Annie?

      • Jay H

        We have my stepdaughter here for the last few days. Sweet kid, but the laziest pig you could imagine, not at her house though. We’re biting our tongues (not like Bay) because she’s leaving tomorrow, but it’s getting harder. So yes, I feel you.

      • Ann

        Thanks Sassy, now I won’t feel so bad giving them the soon to be eviction notice.

      • Ann

        Jay, she won’t be here much longer especially if she quits her 5hr a day job. The girl is lazy, pretends to be sick all of the time. She’s a frequent flyer at the ER & God only knows how she’s going to pay those bills. She goes to the ER 3-4 times a week so she won’t have to go to work. When she went today, I just about went through the roof. When she gets back, I’m letting her know it’s time for her to go back to her mom’s. She came when Hurricane Harvey came last year & she never left.

      • ladycobra

        My son quit college and decided to come home, lay on the couch, no job and he tried making the rules for the house. I told him to pick, college or work. He got a little part time job, just enough money to pay for partying. He decided to go partying one night and got a DUI. He called me to bail him out. I told him he should have used his quarter to call someone that gave a damn and I would not bail him out. He called his then girlfriend and she bailed him out. When he got home I had a contract drawn up regarding the rules of the house and if the rules were broken he was out on the street. Needless to say he broke the contract and his butt was thrown out. He moved in with a friend and then got his act together. Very responsible man now, owns his own business and is a very good family man. Tough love was the hardest thing I ever did but I would do it all over again to make him grow up.

      • Seattle Kari

        no in-laws here but I’m 56 and my daughter is 19 and still living at home because she just graduated a year ago. I don’t care if she’s almost 20 I will kick her living ass to the curb… (Curb stomp, LOL!)

        Don’t defy me little one I don’t care if you are 6 inches taller than I am! LOL

      • Seattle Kari

        Adding to what I said. My daughter graduated a year ago and does have her associate’s degree at the same time as your high school diploma. She deals with pretty bad anxiety so I haven’t pushed her out of the nest quite yet because I know she’s not emotionally ready nor does she have enough money. She is working at a local hardware store and really likes it but I’m really trying to get her ass back in school to get some sort of a degree that she can actually get a job with. I’m so completely infuriated because she had a Washington state need Grant given to her, no questions asked that I applied for when she was in 8th grade as long as she kept her GPA up and the finances were still low. Guess what. She didn’t apply in time and now she’s ineligible. I’m so completely upset about this! I told her either she’s in school full-time or she’s working full-time by January 1st if she’s working full-time she will be paying rent. If she’s in school full-time I’m still going to insist that she helps out a little bit more.

        My kid isn’t a bad one. She’s defiant against me and really nobody else. But she’s pretty responsible when it comes to her money I will give her that. And she did voluntarily start paying her own phone bill and start buying some of her own groceries.

        but the slob comments? Yeah I have that here too. I really don’t give a damn I go into her room and I started throwing shit away. Today was my Tipping Point because I went in there and there were two different containers that had leftover food ride in it and I’ve told her before that because we have this issue with ants that she needs to stop it. From now on there’s not going to be any food allowed in her room flat-out. I’m sick of having to go in there and seeing it. Frappuccino containers are the worst every freaking day that little shit buys a frappuccino…

      • Ann

        Good for you ladycobra, the thing is in my son is not married to this girl although she’s constantly hinting on the subject. He tells me he’s not ready to get married & I pray he means it. He’s 24 & she’s his first girlfriend, I think he needs to have other friends rather than settling on this one. He has a very good job driving for the UPS & he’s taking college classes because he wants to own his own business. He’s always been the kid with his nose in hisi books & going to the gym. He’s the youngest boy & yes he’s a mama’s boy.. but I am so proud of him. I just want him to get another girlfriend with some drive & who wants something out of life.

  24. AIO_7

    All this talk about why Angelica is so down in the dumps recently. Is it also possible that it is her time of the month?

  25. Patty

    Picture test… when I click on my name and it takes me
    To my profile it shows up.. I have logged out and logged in so let’s see if it shows up on this comment!

    • Patty

      Can anyone explain to me why it won’t show up? The upload now picture is driving me nuts.

    • Sassy

      Your best bet is to contact Steve. There is a contact tab with his info. He may not know there is an issue, as I’m sure he probably doesn’t have time to keep up with all our messages.

      • Patty

        Ok thanks, I appreciate it. And funny question Mel, but yes I hit save. It shows up for me but not when I leave a comment. Is there another place I have to upload pictures to? Or is it just under the profile?

      • Mel

        Just on the profile. I don’t think Steve’s around today, at least right now. There may be something he has to do on his end to fix the problem. Just send him a msg and he’ll be be able to figure it out. He mentioned that we should let him know if anything was acting up on the site recently.

      • Patty

        Ok I sent a message, thanks guys I appreciate your help!

      • Colby

        Patty, are you using the Avatar section at the very bottom of the page, not the one at the top?

      • Patty

        Colby, I’m not sure what you mean. I’m using my iPhone and only one spot to upload my picture when I click on my profile

      • Colby

        Nevermind what I said.
        I just changed mine yesterday, but the page that comes up today is different.

    • Jay H

      My picture isn’t updating either. I’m a follower, so I joined the helmet club, and it plumb ain’t workin

  26. Helen

    Omg!! I’ve had to log in 5 times today!!! Help!!!!!!!

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  28. HappyHippo

    Interesting looking comp, can’t wait to see how it plays out! Come on 9pm!

  29. mm22

    My profile is gone too-how could I log in if
    I get booted out?

  30. AIO_7

    New thread, Ya’ll.

  31. delabear

    I was having the same problem with avatar change. There are 2 different profiles – one for Word Press general, and the other for this site. Here is the link that was provided that worked for me. Follow these instructions and you should be able to change your profile pic.


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